Process vs. outcome
Orient yourself around the therapeutic attitude of willing acceptance and create structure around a process-based goal. If your goal is to cultivate a more effective relationship with your anxiety, your process can include any behavior that gives them the opportunity to practice going towards and accepting anxiety.
Making helpful commitments
When you are reflecting on the challenges in your life and deciding how to set goals to overcome them, you want to get as specific as possible about what the issue is and break the solution down to the smallest next step.